PARENTING...MOTHERHOOD...MOMMYHOOD....

Asalam jumaat....nowadays ni i suka baca blog #barelysupermommy by #Drhalina......

seronok coretannya bersahaja....

then banyak mengenai kekeluargaan dan #familylifesytle....#mommyhood...#parenting...

biar apa pun cara kita...siapa pun kita ....peranan ibu bapa tetap sama.....even dulu until now kan....

so practise makes perfect .....but practise need learning...learning need knowlegde......knowledge can get from anysources ....... from book....from people...from internet...from parent ....from friend...from consultant....from xperiences....etc....etc.....we need to keep on searching...sharing and looking...

then semalam dengar i slot #transformasidiri by #profmuhaya......yang i terus buat ialah.....bila nak rasa sentiasa dekat dengan our kids let's write a letter for him / her.....

so i rasa nak write yang pertama-tama untuk my lovely daughter NUR IRDINA MARSYA a.k.a kak ngah.....sebab apa.....sebab dia suka luahkan apa-apa saja kepada i or sesiapa saja dalam bentuk letter...she love to write.......then dia ni jenis tak suka sangat kita tegur dia ...dia akan jawap terus cam nak juga menang kan....it's ok ...itu reaksi yang baik ....at least me can know her better kan.....so i think this it my right way to say something to her......

so in my letter ....i apreciate her as my cute miut girl.....and ...because of her face alway like this :(....  i kena puji her smiling was so sweet and she has a nice teethes actually....

she likes sing #adele song ....especially " someone like u" and others english's song.....she likes to speak like as a lecturer...and likes doing housework.....she's 9 years old  and for me she still my baby.....

i then tegur dia secara lembut dan suggested her to do the right things.....then banyakan pujian kemuadian selitkan nasihat....dan apa berlaku jika itu dibuat......but jangan tegur sekaligus....maybe in this letter ....teguran 1 dan seterusnya.....

so she 's very happied when i gave her that letter and she must read before sleep.....

when i came to her bedroom , i saw ..letter hang up at her study table......and i felt so touching when read her replied....it's really worked !...... 

moral : i just wanted her to know that i alway with her and love her so much....no pilih-pilih kasih....

so mommy outhere...there the way to xpress your feeling to our kiddos.....

keep reading, with luv from azuha